Monday, December 22, 2008
Merry Christmas
In just a few days we will be celebrating the birth of our Lord...Christmas. I hope you all are enjoying these last few days of preparation and anticipation. Our little tree is up and the gifts are wrapped to share with our loved ones. We have already celebrated early with some of them, but it is Christmas Day that I look forward to the most. Although things have changed through the years the one constant is the true meaning of Christmas...Jesus. The gifts we give each other are symbolic of the gift God gave to us...His Son...the best gift of all...a gift from the heart to fill our hearts. I hope you are all able to give gifts from the heart this year and not just fancy presents and packages. I have received two very special gifts, so far, this year. One from my daughter, Melissa and her family...a digital photo album. It is my favorite color, red, and small enough to fit into my purse. It will hold thousands of photos as well as music, movies and e-books. I'm still trying to figure it all out, but it's really neat. My daughter knows how important my pictures of my family are to me. The second gift is from my son, Brandon and his wife, Amy. She created a DVD with music of our Christmas last year and their family pictures from 2008. She also made a DVD of old pictures of my Dad and my family with music...they are awesome! I will treasure these gifts because they were given from the heart. I have yet to receive the Christmas gift I long for from my youngest daughter...her acceptance...maybe next year.
Another wonderful gift was given to me through my surgeon on December 10. I had my gall bladder removed and am now feeling soooooo much better. Apparently, by its appearance after removal, it has been bad for a very long time and probably contributed greatly to why I have felt so sick and possibly why I have gained weight and was unable to lose weight. I am so grateful! Thank you Dr. M!!!!
Christmas Eve we will be celebrating with Bob's mom, Lois and her fiance, Allen. We will have a light dinner, open gifts, and attend Midnight Mass with them. On Christams Day Bob and I will probably go see a movie...a new tradition we have started. This is just our 4th Christmas together...a short time, actually, but I feel like I've known him all my life. Everyday is a gift with him! Have a wonderful and blessed Christmas everyone!
Friday, November 14, 2008
To write or not to write...
Wednesday, August 6, 2008
Just Stopping By
Thought I'd post some pictures.
This is our grandson, Conner ( and his handsome Grandpa) on his first birthday.
Here's my cat, Sprinkles...ticked off at me because I was leaving again. She tries to hide in my suitcase!
Our granddaughter, Charli Ann on her 2nd birthday. This is the table and chair set she got from Grandpa & Grandma.
Granddaughter, Lizzie with the memory quilt we made while she stayed with us a few days this summer.
Charli trying to figure out why the voice sounds familiar but the face looks so strange.
(Me as Buttons the Clown)
Granddaughter Amanda-Jo. She stayed with us this summer, too.
Jack and Dorothy at Pier 17 in New York City.
Me, Dorothy & Jack at the Chinese Garden inside the Metropolitan Museum of Art in New York City.
That's all for now! Will post some more another day. Oh, for all of you out there still waiting for your sketches from the Relay for Life Fund Raiser...hang in there! I'm gradually getting them done...and thank you soooooo much for the amazing support! Over 60 sketches and many additional donations...thankyou!
Wednesday, July 23, 2008
Wow do I need to update!
In the end of May Bob and I rode the motorcycle to Colorado with our friends who were participating in the 2008 Boulder Boulder. The weather was miserable both coming and going. We decided to travel via Wyoming to avoid heavier traffic. As we approached Cheyenne on Interstate 25 (about 20 miles East of Cheyenne) there was this ominous black cloud across the sky. On each side it was dark and pouring rain and in the center it was light. It was like driving into a dark tunnel. Suddenly it started hailing and I bowed my head and started to pray the Rosary intensely. I felt hail hitting my leg and then I heard Bob say, "I think it's getting slick" and then the next thing I knew I was soaring down the interstate on my back...but I wasn't afraid. My first thought was, "Oh, we had an accident." My second thought was, "Am I going to start rolling?" But then I knew I wasn't. My next thought was, "Where is my husband...where is Bob?" and then I bumped into him (we were both free-sliding) and I thought, "Oh, there he is." When I finally came to a stop, I saw Bob coming toward me saying "Are you all right?" And I thought, "Oh good, he's all right." and then I looked to my left and realized I was in the middle of the interstate highway and there were cars coming at me in the distance. So I rolled over on my hands and knees and began frantically crawling to the edge of the road...it was slick because of all the hail. As Bob approached me a car drove up beside me and I read the license plate which was "HP27...or 28" and I knew it was the Highway Patrol. As Bob raised me to stand I felt a sharp pain in my chest and I knew I broke or cracked my ribs. The Highway Patrol blocked the on coming traffic so we could lift the bike and get it back on the highway. I climbed back on with Bob and it started right up. Only the lower chrome was scuffed. There was 2 - 3 inches of hail on the pavement when we had sailed across it. Bob said later that it was like being on a big Slip-n-Slide. We went down at about 50 miles per hour!!! When Bob released the throttle to slow the bike down the rear end swerved and we were thrown from the bike to the pavement...actually we were more like lowered to the pavement. I don't remember leaving the bike or hitting the pavement. We had full gear on including our rain gear, gloves, helmets and heavy boots. Both Bob and I have tears in our left elbows of our rain coats and I have scuff marks across my back of the coat and the left rear butt is ripped. Our boots are scuffed on the toes, but that is it. Bob is perfectly fine...and I have some sore ribs...that is all! Pretty good for sailing down the interstate on our backs at 50 miles an hour! The whole time I felt perfectly calm and at peace. I just knew it was okay...no matter what. It was such an awesome and eerie experience...and gave me a glimpse of the difference prayer can make in a situation. Our friends were on their bike in front of us but didn't see us fall because the hail was so heavy. When we pulled up next to them I asked Diane, "Were you praying?" And she said, "Yes!" Then we told them what happened. Both Diane and I were praying the Rosary...so I think I should write a story about the experience and title it "Hail Mary...Literally" :o)
We had reservations at a hotel in Fort Collins and although it was very painful, I told Bob to just get us to the hotel and then when we get there we can find an Urgent Care so they can check out my ribs. Well, we ended up going to the Emergency Room at the hospital, because urgent care closes early there and they did x-rays of my lungs but not of the bones. They wanted to make sure my lungs were inflated properly and said that there isn't anything they do for cracked ribs anyway except give pain meds...so they didn't x-ray the bones. I tried to get them to tape me but they said no as the restriction can cause a person to get pneumonia after an injury to the ribs. You can imagine how much fun it was to ride on the motorcycle with cracked ribs! :o( I took Ibuprofen for a couple days but had to quit on Monday as it was making me nauseous. On the ride back to Nebraska I bought a wide ace wrap and had Bob bind me and that helped...plus the freezing cold and rain we encountered was a good distraction from the pain!
After the accident we stopped at a gas station and Bob noticed that his daughter had called at 6:09pm so I checked my phone and at 6:09pm my sister called. Both left messages saying they were concerned and wondered if we were all right. My daughter-in-law told me later that Charli (our grand daughter) had come to her and asked to go to bed, but it was too early for bed so Brenda laid down with her on their bed and they prayed together for Grandpa and Grandma to be safe. Bob's mom had prayed also several times during the day for us.
The one thing that I was very sure of during the whole incident was that prayer makes all the difference...almost like I could sense it. I know that for a fact now and believe it even stronger. I have never felt such a sense of peace and assurance. There was never any fear...amazing! When we are near to God...He is near to us!
So that is just a part of what I have been up to lately. I will post more soon!
Monday, May 12, 2008
Off Again!
Since my last posting, I have been hired as a Pastoral Minister for our local Parish and I'm working at getting a schedule set in place to visit people. I look forward to being very involved in that ministry. I will post more about that later.
Our family has been busy with fund raisers for the upcoming American Cancer Society Relay for Life in which our little granddaughter, Charli Ann, will be the honorary co-chair. For more information on those fund raisers please go to http://www.brenda-chad.blogspot.com/ and you will get all the 'scoop'.
So I'm off again to one of my favorite cities...New York! Look out GiGi's Cafe! Can't wait for all the goodies there :o) But most of all I look forward to just spending some time again with my sweet Aunt Dorothy and "Uncle" Jack. Lord willing, the weather will be wonderful and we will be able to take some nice walks along the Hudson in Riverside Park. I think we're going to check out the Art Museum, too. I will post pictures on my return.
Thanks for checking in and God Bless!
Monday, March 31, 2008
Let's support Relay for Life
Jody Preister
27040 State Hwy 91
Humphrey, NE 68642
Sunday, March 9, 2008
Another ABNA Update
The Hellraiser of the Hollywood Hills by Jennifer Colt (Santa Monica, CA)
Casting Off by Nicole R. Dickson (Greesnboro, NC)
Bad Things Happen by Harry Dolan (Ypsilanti, MI)
The Wet Nurse's Tale by Erica Eisdorfer (Carrboro, NC)
The Butterflies of Grand Canyon by Margaret Erhart (Flagstaff, AZ)
Ring of Lies by Karen Laugel (Woodbridge, CT)
Fresh Kills by Bill Loehfelm (New Orleans, LA)
Motherless Children by Randall Luce (Montgomery Village, MD)
The Prospect of My Arrival by Dwight Okita (Chicago, IL)
Wrecking Civilization Before Lunch by John Ring (Shawnee, KS)
I did not post any reviews while "The Scrapbook" was a contender in the contest, but now I am enjoying reading some of these and casting my vote. I haven't made any decisions on what my plans are for my book until the contest is completely over...but I hope it will be published soon. Thank you everyone for your continued encouragement and support as I proceed with my writing.
Wednesday, February 20, 2008
Amazon Update - Keeping things in perspective
Yesterday was also the day of my sweet Aunt Iris' funeral so that is where all my love and concern were directed. She was an amazing woman. Her granddaughter, Lissa, gave the most amazing eulogy which related wonderfully to the Bible Study I worked on as I rode in the truck on the way to Papillion. This part of the study was from the words of Christ on the cross when he said, "I am thirsty". Here is what I wrote in my journal:
While attending my aunt's funeral, one of the humorous things they mentioned about her was when the family would travel in the car and one of the kids would complain that they were thirsty. She would reach over to the dash of the car to her "pretend spigot" and with her "pretend glass" proceed to fill it and hand it to the complaining child.
I wondered if this was her way of showing them how silly and inappropriate their request was at the moment. It just wasn't the right place for such a request. Perhaps it made the child laugh. Perhaps it made them angry, but it proved a point which was the fact that sometimes our thirst can not be immediately granted or satisfied.
All of us thirst for many different things. Often we try to satisfy that thirst with things of the world. Ultimately our greatest thirst should be that of the knowledge of Christ and His will for our lives so we are able to share that knowledge with others and lead them to Christ.
Our thirst for Christ takes effort but just as the effort the child showed stating their need while in the car, sometimes we need to be in the right place in our life before Christ comes in and quenches our thirst.
It is times like this that I know I worship a living and loving God.
Thursday, February 7, 2008
Lent? Already?
For Lent, I have decided to give up checking the Amazon.com/abna site every hour and limit my checks to just once or twice a day! I'm just kiddingof course...although that would be quite a sacrifice for me! This contest has revealed an obsessive/compulsive side of me that I really don't like, though, and I am determined to not turn into one of those who can't seem to pull themselves away from the discussion boards. I do want to thank those who have been kind enough to download my excerpt, read, review and rate it. So far, "The Scrapbook" is at 14 reviews and maintaining a 3.5 star rating. There have been some very helpful reviews and some not so helpful, but I am thankful for each of them. There are so many extrememly qualified and wonderful stories in this contest. February 19th the contestants will be narrowed down from 836 to approximately 100. I would love to make the next cut, but it all depends on what determines the qualifications. I've been blessed to come this far.
Back to Lent, I found a Lent Calendar via an internet site that I have decided to use on my Lenten journey. Each day provides a suggestion for fasting, giving, and forgiving as well as Spiritual growth opportunities. I will also be eliminating meat again from my diet and enjoying various fish and other protien sources. There is a group of us from Church involved in a Bible Study on the "Seven Last Words of Christ" which will last through Lent. I am hoping Bob and I will make time to read a little each night from a devotional, also. Last year we read through, "The Pupose Driving Life" for Lent. I hope to find new ways to give of myself during this time, too. Most of all, I just want to focus on the sacrifice Christ made for us when He died on the cross for our sin. What an amazing gift!
God Bless!
P.S. My nose is all healed!
Monday, January 28, 2008
Nose to the Grindstone
Wednesday, January 23, 2008
Reviews: Take in the good...learn from the bad - 4 stars and holding!
manuscript review by Publishers Weekly, an independent organizationThe only point in this story where something reasonably exciting happens is when the cat — named loosely after England’s Prince Charles — dies. This happens on 113, nowhere near where the climax of the action should be. Never mind that it’s a cat. Broken-hearted from losing her fiancĂ© in a motorcycling accident, Glenda is lonely and sad. She finds a thrift store scrapbook and pores over Betty Ann Christiansen’s record of her trip from Nebraska to Southern California many years ago. At this point you may think the novel’s going to be a knock-off of "The Notebook," but surprisingly little has to do with the actual scrapbook, though the perspective does shift back and forth: from Glenda reading it to Betty Ann’s recollections, as she sits in a nursing home, recovering from a stroke. Her loving son Mark visits often. Glenda searches for answers at church, and goes on a weekend retreat with the church group … where she sees Mark (!) who is, of course, interested in her. A priest cat-sitting for Glenda sees the scrapbook, and recognizes himself in a class photo, so he’s involved in things as well. Interspersed throughout are didatic Christian sermons.IDEA: 2 PLOT: 2 CHARACTERS: 2 PROSE: 2 WOW: 2
No other authors had the mumber ratings following their reviews...don't know what that means, but I guess 2 is better than 1 or 0.
Okay, so that was pretty bad. Now for the good reviews from two of Amazon.com's Top Reviewers. They understood where the story was going and all they were able to read was the 5000 word excerpt. Their reviews still give me hope. Here they are:
Amazon Top ReviewerA worthwhile story of a woman who buys an old scrapbook to peruse and the life story that the book tells. This excerpt holds so much promise. The writing is top-notch. The author's transition between past and present is seamlessly, beautifully done. This is a book that I would rank up there with Nicolas Sparks' "The Notebook".
Amazon Top ReviewerThough this type of story is not my cup of tea I can see the appeal. This novel fits well in with books like "Divine Secrets of the Ya Ya Sisterhood." Glenda has found a scrapbook/diary that belonged to someone name Betty Ann. Betty Ann is many miles away in a nursing home after a stroke. The two women are remembering Betty Ann's youth, Betty from memory and Glenda from the diary. A connection is made between them. The writing is well done. There is little dialog in this excerpt, but it isn't needed. A reader will get wrapped up in a life, and wonder, will these two ever meet? Great start.
So there they are...the long awaited big time reviews! I don't know what this means for the fate of The Scrapbook as far as continuing in the contest, but until I hear differently I will assume we are still in the game so , PLEASE POST THOSE REVIEWS IF YOU HAVEN'T ALREADY! This is where your well written reviews can really make a difference. I really appreciate your support and value your opinion.
On another note...I made the front page of the Humphrey Democrat Newspaper today and the Columbus Telegram did a phone interview for their paper. Tell your friends about the contest and take some time to go through some of the other writers' pages...there is some amazing talent out there!
Tuesday, January 22, 2008
Give me understanding....
My soul clings to the dust; revive me according to your word. When I told of my ways, you answered me; teach me your statutes. Make me understand the way of your precepts, and I will meditate on your wondrous works. My soul melts away for sorrow; strengthen me according to your word. Put false ways far from me; and graciously teach me your law. I have chosen the way of faithfulness; I set your ordinances before me. I cling to your decrees, O LORD; let me not be put to shame. I run the way of your commandments, for you enlarge my understanding.
Teach me, O LORD, the way of your statutes, and I will observe it to the end. Give me understanding, that I may keep your law and observe it with my whole heart. Lead me in the path of your commandments, for I delight in it. Turn my heart to your decrees, and not to selfish gain. Turn my eyes from looking at vanities; give me life in your ways. Confirm to your servant your promise, which is for those who fear you. Turn away the disgrace that I dread, for your ordinances are good. See, I have longed for your precepts; in your righteousness give me life. Let your steadfast love come to me, O LORD, your salvation according to your promise. Then I shall have an answer for those who taunt me, for I trust in your word. Do not take the word of truth utterly out of my mouth, for my hope is in your ordinances. I will keep your law continually, forever and ever. I shall walk at liberty, for I have sought your precepts. I will also speak of your decrees before kings, and shall not be put to shame; I find my delight in your commandments, because I love them. I revere your commandments, which I love, and I will meditate on your statutes. Amen
Thursday, January 17, 2008
Living the Dream
If one is to write, one must be open to the opportunity to do so. I was at a dinner and overheard a group talking about wanting to find someone to write and illustrate a children's book to present the 150 years of their town. I graciously introduced myself and told them I would be willing to take on the challenge and I would do it free of charge. Many wondered why I would do such a thing, but I knew it would give me the opportunity to finally see my words and illustrations in print. Of course I had to meet with the planning committee and prove to them I was capable of such an endeavor. On our first meeting I already had most of the book completed and some of the rough illustrations created. The book was written in rhyme to keep it fun and interesting for children. It was well received and has been presented throughout that community and across the state. I have done several book signings and especially enjoy doing interactive readings using an old trunk filled with articles represented in the story and involving the audience. It is so much fun! Do I receive a great amount of monetary reward for this service? Well, no...but the pleasure is priceless!
To write one must always take notice of everything around you. I have learned that each circumstance, experience and person in my life can become an inspiration for expression. I used to paint and draw more than I write, but now I write more than the other. Either way it is all the same pleasure. One creates an image on canvas or paper using pencil or paint. The other creates an image in the mind using words.
My first published novel, "Third & Grace" (available at Amazon.com ASIN: 1424160197) was created using many of my own personal experiences and weaving them into a tender fictional story that could very easily be true. A chance encounter with a small publishing company while searching the internet and a well structured query letter earned me the opportunity to be published. I will forever cherish the memory of the excitement I experienced when I received the notice that my manuscript had been accepted and I was offered a publishing contract. It is matched only by the incredible joy I felt when I received the copies of my book and held it for the first time in my hands. To see my words printed in book form and my name on the cover was amazing and a dream come true. Has this book brought me monetary wealth and financial success? Well, no...but I love that it is out there and that others are reading it. I love it that it is enjoyed by those who read it. I love that it has encouraged others in their lives. I love it when they tell me it made them cry and laugh and they couldn't put it down until they finished it. The pleasure from that has made me oh so rich!
Now I am waiting...one of the 836 Semi-Finalists whose manuscript (The Scrapbook)is being considered in the Amazon Breakthrough Novel Award Contest. Although I am already a published writer, and have succeeded in my dream of being so...I am still filled with the excitement of this contest and the wonderful opportunities it presents. I am humbled and honored to be among all the amazing talent that is represented through my fellow writers, who are not competitors but companions in this event. Do I want to win? Oh, you bet I do! Is it the most important thing in my life? No, not at all. For when it is all decided, and the prizes are awarded and the honors bestowed, the things I value most will still be all that truly matters...my faith, my family, and my friends.
Wednesday, January 16, 2008
I'M IN...AGAIN - SEMI-FINALIST AMAZON BREAKTHROUGH NOVEL AWARD CONTEST
What Makes A Good Review? In the semifinalist round, we're breaking new ground in our customer reviewing community: this is the first opportunity for customers to play an active role in the publishing process. The criteria for judging an unpublished book are a little bit different from the norm. Keep these pointers in mind as you're reading and remember: your voice counts.
1.Be persuasive. Experts at Penguin will be relying on customer reviews as they prepare to select the finalists, so don't hesitate to tell us what you really think. The reviews that provide the most thorough, thoughtful feedback are the ones that will help Penguin choose the Top Ten.
2.Quantity and quality help. The more reviews you write, and the more helpful each review is, the more likely you are to win one of our three prize packages.
3.Discuss. As with customer reviews for all our products, you can comment on others' excerpt reviews and rate them. Any discussion and activity we see around specific titles will only keep us coming back for more, so feel free to speak up and banter with your peers.
One quick heads-up: Per the contest rules, every excerpt is a maximum of 5,000 words in length. As a result, you may find that excerpts vary in length or end unexpectedly. Consider yourself warned--and happy reading!
I am sooooooooooooooooo excited! Thank you so much for your support!
Monday, January 14, 2008
Today is the day!
I am trying not to have anxiety while I wait patiently.
Be sure to check out my profile at http://www.amazon.com/gp/pdp/profile/A108IHTR4CY6V6... and thanks again!